Rabu, 26 Desember 2012

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) The polite


Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) The polite

The Prophet Muhammad always treated people courteously, irrespective of their social status or religious beliefs, and entertained everyone who came to his house and all whom he met in the street with the same refined manners. In this respect, he never discriminated between people on the basis of their social status or beliefs, but treated them all alike with courtesy and politeness. The Qur’an mentions this quality of the Prophet in these words: 

It is a part of the Mercy of Allah that you deal politely and gently with them. Were you severe, uncivil or harsh-hearted, they would have broken away from you: so pass over their faults, and ask for Allah’s Forgiveness for them. (Qur’an, 3:159) 

It was his gentleness and politeness that endeared him to all who came into contact with him. There are many instances in history which reveal the miraculous effect of his gentle and courteous way of dealing with the unbelievers. Some who were his deadliest enemies, determined to destroy him and his faith after having some social contact with him. They were completely changed by his conduct to them into beings who now loved him more than anything else in this world.

He never used any abusive language to any one in his life, and never uttered even a harsh word to anyone.  He even prevented others from using harsh language.  If he ever wanted to warn others, he would do so in a very mild and affectionate tone.  The Jews addressed him maliciously with the words, A1-sa’mu-’alaikum (i.e., death on you) instead of As-salamu ‘Alaikum (i.e., peace on you).  Hearing this, his wife, ‘A’ishah, could not restrain herself and burst out spontaneously: “May Allah bring death on you.” The Prophet reprimanded her, saying that Allah did not like harsh words (Muslim,5656).

The Prophet, as a human being, was sometimes greatly hurt by people’s ignorance, but he would not utter a single word of disapproval. The Qur’an refers to this in these words: 0 you who believe! Enter not the Prophet’s houses -until permission is given to you -for a meal, (and then) not so early as to wait for its preparation: but when you are invited, enter; and when you have taken your meal, disperse, without stopping to gossip. Such behavior annoys the Prophet, but he would be ashamed to dismiss you, but Allah is not ashamed to tell you the truth. (Qur’an, 33:53) 

There are many Ahadith of the Prophet which bear witness to his most courteous and polite conduct in social relationships: “Anas said that a woman whose mind was affected once came to the Prophet and said: “Allah’s Messenger! I want something from you.” He replied: “Mother of so-and-so, take me where you live so that I may accomplish what you want.” He then went along with her to her home and helped her with some jobs. 

(Muslim) Ali said that Allah’s Messenger owed some dinarsto a Jewish doctor, and he demanded payment from the Prophet. When he told him that he had nothing to pay him with, the Jew replied: “I will not leave you, Muhammad, until you pay me.” Allah’s Messenger said: “I shall sit with you, then,” and did so. Allah’s Messenger offered the noon, afternoon, sunset and night prayers and the next day’s morning prayers. The companions were threatening and menacing the Jew.  Allah’s Messenger being aware of what they were doing. Then they said: “Messenger of Allah! Is the Jew keeping you in restraint?” to which he replied: “My Lord has prevented me from wronging one with whom a covenant has been made or anyone else.” Then, when the day was advanced, the Jew said: “I testify that there is no God but Allah, and I testify that you are Allah’s Messenger. Then he said that half of his property would be devoted to Allah’s Way, and added: “I swear by Allah that my only purpose in treating you as I have done was that I might know the description of you given in the Torah. ‘Muhammad ibn Abdullah, whose birthplace is in Mekkah, whose place of emigration is in Taiba, and whose kingdom is in Syria; he is not harsh or rough or loud-voiced in the streets, and he is not characterized by coarseness of lewd speech’He would never interrupt when others were talking. He would never point out the weaknesses of others by name but would express his dislike in a general way. He always spoke politely and courteously to all people, whether low or high, rich or poor.  All his actions and movements were characterized by simplicity. When mounted, he would not mind seating another, even a slave, behind him. In brief, civility and good and refined manners, courtesy, mildness, pleasant speech, are the main features of the dealings of the Prophet Muhammad’s with the people. And since all these elements are closely related with truth, the next value that Prophet Muhammad considered seriously was the need to abide by truthfulness in their interpersonal and group communications. 

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